I believe in positivism. Its not like everyone should be positive, but its good to be positive. There are cynical people around us, some have a provisional mindset. They always like to be prepared for "if things go wrong" scenario. I am not against anyone. Just that most of the time people judge positive guys like 'day dreamer' or the word 'irrationally' is attached to their nature. I don't agree to that.Basically I feel we all forget that here we are talking about nature and not reaction. Nature is something which is permanent, long lasting. On the other hand reactions are immediate, more of a short term thing. We often judge someone by his/her reactions instead of nature and rush to conclusions.
When a person gets angry, irritated after a huge fight that is his reaction. How he behaves after sometime shows his nature. There are people who are always angry or always crying. But if they get a prize they will obviously feel happy and cheerful.
So what exactly we mean by Positivist...
Animesh an above average guy, who usually secures a place in top 10 just got slammed in one of his exams. He was very much frustrated and angry, because he knew he did his best as always. He has 'a off mode' day. He did not talked to any of his friends. At night when he was very much settled with that feeling, he came back to his NATURE. He thought that as his score is so bad (for the very first time), their must be some reason for that. May be that's the chance when he can can get a boost to his studies and outperformed in next exams. He felt very hopeful and happy about it.
I guess the example is pretty much self explanatory. See its really very easy to keep on cribbing about what happened wrong and how it happened. We can really spend out lifetime in such feeling. As time passes we realize that when we are cribbing about things, we are getting a kind of attention (atleast of someone) and with time it becomes our nature. No one is born to be positive or negative, it just happens. So actually speaking its upto us how we want to be. Being positive may not give you immediate attention but trust me, people will follow your footsteps silently. If we try to find out whats good in everything, the world will turn in to haven.
For me positivity is related to happiness. If you (please note YOU) want to be happy, you have to find something good out of what happened and think good, positive about future. All it gives is a hope to live and happy state of mind.
When a person gets angry, irritated after a huge fight that is his reaction. How he behaves after sometime shows his nature. There are people who are always angry or always crying. But if they get a prize they will obviously feel happy and cheerful.
So what exactly we mean by Positivist...
Animesh an above average guy, who usually secures a place in top 10 just got slammed in one of his exams. He was very much frustrated and angry, because he knew he did his best as always. He has 'a off mode' day. He did not talked to any of his friends. At night when he was very much settled with that feeling, he came back to his NATURE. He thought that as his score is so bad (for the very first time), their must be some reason for that. May be that's the chance when he can can get a boost to his studies and outperformed in next exams. He felt very hopeful and happy about it.
I guess the example is pretty much self explanatory. See its really very easy to keep on cribbing about what happened wrong and how it happened. We can really spend out lifetime in such feeling. As time passes we realize that when we are cribbing about things, we are getting a kind of attention (atleast of someone) and with time it becomes our nature. No one is born to be positive or negative, it just happens. So actually speaking its upto us how we want to be. Being positive may not give you immediate attention but trust me, people will follow your footsteps silently. If we try to find out whats good in everything, the world will turn in to haven.
For me positivity is related to happiness. If you (please note YOU) want to be happy, you have to find something good out of what happened and think good, positive about future. All it gives is a hope to live and happy state of mind.
I strongly feel 'It is very easy to be sad, but difficult to be happy'.
- Swaroop..
- Swaroop..
(P.S. - I love the difficult path.... always)
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